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Indonesia dating guide advises how to meet single girls. You just need to know the basic steps how to date Indonesian women. Learn how to arrange dates with hot Indonesian girls, how to take your relationship to the next level and how to find your soulmate and fall in love. Read more on how to date local women and where to meet girls in Indonesia, Asia.


Girls in Indonesia:

  • Looks of girls: 3.75 / 5
  • Attitude of girls: 3.5 / 5
  • Loyalty of girls: 4 / 5
  • Education level of girls: 3.75 / 5

Dating in Indonesia:

  • Chance of arranging dates: 3.75 / 5
  • Casual dating culture: 3.5 / 5
  • Online dating popularity: 4.25 / 5

Sex in Indonesia:

  • Women's sexual activity: 3.5 / 5
  • One-night stands: 3.75 / 5

More about Indonesia:

  • Nightlife in general: 4 / 5
  • Locals' English level: 3.5 / 5
  • Budget per day: US$70 - $250
  • Accommodation: US$30 - $150

Dating

Indonesia is a country located in Southeast Asia and Oceania. Consisting of more than 17,000 islands, Indonesia is a huge country with some of the popular vacation spots, such as Bali, Lombok, Sumatra, Java, and New Guinea. It's capital, Jakarta, is the second-most populous urban area in the world, with a total population of more than 30 million. The country has the larger Muslim population in the world, and therefore, the people here are conservative.

In spite of being a Muslim-dominated country, the girls here are quite friendly. However, dating and sex are not discussed openly in Indonesia, and as a foreigner, you will need to be a bit careful when indulging in dating-related activities. Indonesia is a popular tourist destination, thanks to some of its beautiful islands. While a lot of foreign men come to Indonesia, they don't show a lot of interest in dating Indonesian women. Females in this country are conservative in terms of dressing and talking, something which may not attract a lot of men.

But that does not mean Indonesian women are not worth dating. They are beautiful and sexy, and above that, they are extremely loyal and respectful. If you keep some basic rules in mind and play the game the right way, you will find some great Indonesian females to date. Indonesia might not be the best country for hookups and one night stands, but if you are looking for a place to find love and probably, get married, Indonesia is an excellent pick.

You can find females for casual dating as well. We'll talk about the dating culture in detail later, but for now, keep in mind that Indonesian girls prefer casual dating, too. So, if you're looking for a relationship with lots of fun, adventure, and sex but no strings attached, Indonesia can cater to your needs. But yes, the majority of the girls will prefer long-term relationships, and to find horny girls, you will need to be selective with where you go and what type of girls you interact with.


Dating Culture

Dating culture in Indonesia lies somewhere between conservative and liberal. While the majority of the population in the country is Muslim, the overall culture is quite liberal and relaxed, with dating and hanging out with partners without marriage or engagement being common. If you get a girlfriend in Indonesia, you can hang out with her in the cafes and restaurants without any hurdles. You may come across some cockblockers in smaller cities and islands with a lot of local populations, like Java. But in most areas, and especially popular tourist islands like Bali, you will face no issues whatsoever.

Holding hands and keeping your arm around your girl's shoulder is common in Indonesia and is considered completely normal. However, anything more than that is not acceptable. Touching your girlfriend's butt or other assets in public is inappropriate, and doing so many make some people frown at you. To be safe, make sure you don't do such things and leave them for your bedroom.

But that does not mean you cannot express your love in public. Of course, if you love someone, you'll want to show it to the world, and rightfully so. But in Indonesia, you have to be a little careful when doing it. To make things easy, keep public romance for places that are meant for such things. For instance, Bali is a popular honeymoon destination, and in peak seasons, it is filled with couples. Getting intimate with your partner in Indois entirely normal, and people around may appreciate it, too. But in cities like Depok and Bandung, where the number of locals is more, it's better to be a little conservative.


Women

Indonesian women are not the most attractive females you will come across. They have brownish skin and features that resemble a South Asian person who has been slightly "Asian-ized." But that does not mean they're not worth your time. Some Indonesian girls are extremely beautiful and can give tough competition to girls from any country across the globe. But a majority of Indonesian girls are towards the lower side of the spectrum, and if you are not into Asian girls, they might not attract you.

When it comes to attitude, you may find mixed behaviors. Some girls would be nicely behaved and make you feel like tying a knot straight away, whereas some would act so terribly that it'll make you regret your decision to select Indonesia for dating. But in general, Indonesian girls are slightly towards the positive side of the scale, and if you the right techniques to approach them and talk to them, you will have a decent experience with them.

Indonesian girls are not the best educated, especially the ones not living in major cities. They may not be the best English speakers either, so you might need to learn some words and phrases of the Indonesian language. These girls, in most cases, are a bit nervous, so being too direct with them can scare them. Therefore, try being passive with Indonesian girls, especially when talking to them for the first time. Once they get comfortable around you, you can become more assertive and direct.

For a first-time visitor, it might get difficult to select the best places to find girls in Indonesia. With so many islands and cities scattered across a vast area, things can get slightly challenging. In order to pick local Indonesian females, stick to the following cities:

  • Jakarta
  • Medan
  • Palembang
  • Bekasi
  • Depok City

However, most visitors prefer sticking to Jakarta as their primary destination if they visit mainland Indonesia. If you're planning to do the same, there's nothing wrong with it because Jakarta is a huge city and can offer enough opportunities for picking up local Indonesian women.


Indonesian Girls (age 18 - 29)

Indonesian girls are pretty, adventurous, and curious. Most of them are either students or workers who are recently employed. They are interested in foreign men, and being a westerner is surely a novelty in Indonesia. If you are a good-looking westerner, it will be easy for you to impress local girls in Indonesia. However, keep in mind that appearance is important as that is one of the primary aspects on which Indonesian girls judge men. Dress well, put some cologne, and approach them with confidence but with respect and humility.

Indonesian girls are easier to impress because of their high levels of curiosity. With Indonesia being a popular tourist destination, Indonesian girls have seen a lot of tourists, but not a lot of them show interest in dating the local girls here. But nowadays, men are getting readily attracted to Indonesian girls, which has encouraged them to find a foreign partner.

Colleges, cafes, and shopping malls are the best places to find Indonesian girls during the daytime, whereas bars and clubs are the ideal spots for the nighttime. And yes, don't forget the beaches. Indonesia is famous for beaches, and if you go to the right beach at the right time, you will certainly find a lot of local as well as foreign girls.

Lastly, don't overlook online dating in Indonesia. The concept of online dating is very popular in the country, and if you spend some time and use the right strategies, you will find a lot of matches on online dating sites. Moreover, Indonesian girls might not be comfortable talking directly to a stranger guy, but online dating is something they prefer. Some popular online dating sites to use to find single Indonesian girls are:

  • Indonesian Cupid
  • Asian Dating
  • Tinder
  • Bumble
  • Badoo
  • Muslima

Indonesian girls are not the horniest, but they are quite curious. They'll certainly get intrigued by a westerner, and if you're a well-built, good-looking guy, you can automatically attract eyeballs. However, you can find horny Indonesian girls as well. While you may not find a lot of gold diggers in the country, some Indonesian girls in areas like Jakarta and Bali readily visit nightclubs to get laid with handsome men. If you visit the right places and find the right girls, your chances of getting laid will increase.


Indonesian Women (age 30 - 45)

Indonesian women are slightly more conservative, and most of them get married by the time they turn 30. So, most of the Indonesian women you come across maybe already married. But in bigger cities like Jakarta, you will find some single Indonesian women, especially the ones working on important job roles. On the other hand, you can also find a lot of Indonesian women on touristic islands. They usually own hotels, restaurants, or resorts.

While Indonesian women are more conservative, they are hornier too, and if you manage to find a horny woman, seducing her and hooking up with her will not be a difficult task. Indonesian women are easy to impress. If you are a young and good-looking westerner, all you need to do is give them some attention and show some interest in them. If the woman is horny, she will not miss the opportunity to have sex with you.

In bigger cities like Jakarta, you can find such women near major coworking places, corporate hubs, and office settings. They can be readily seen in bars, cafes, and restaurants during the evening or on weekends. You can be direct and assertive with Indonesian women as most of them are looking for hookups anyway. So be confident and approach them without nervousness.

You can also find a lot of Indonesian girls on online dating sites. A large share of Indonesian women uses online dating sites to find young boys for hookups. But on some sites like Muslima, you can find Indonesian women for serious dating as well.


Indonesian Ladies (age 45+)

Finding Indonesian ladies for dating and hookup can be difficult. Ladies here are mostly conservative and don't think a lot about sex. Therefore, you may not find much success in Indonesia if you are into MILFs. However, you can find some single Indonesian ladies in major cities of the country. These ladies are either separated or divorced. Thus, they are horny and are on a constant lookout for young men to have sex. They can be found with Indonesian women in bars and restaurants near major corporate hubs. Some of these women, especially the ones looking for hookups, can be found on online dating sites as well.

You can find horny Indonesian ladies in touristic areas as well. Most of them own small hotels and restaurants, and some run massage parlors, too. They are easy to find, and persuading them for sex is not difficult as they are quite horny. But don't try to go all-in and force them to grab your willy. These women are still conservative, and they'll take their time to decide whether or not they should engage with you sexually. Give them the time they desire and wait for their response. If you find a lady who is horny enough, your chances of getting laid are high. But that being said, be prepared for rejections, and don't let the refusals stop you from trying.


Foreign Girls (tourists, expats, students, etc.)

While Indonesia is not amongst the most visited countries in Asia, tourism is still an essential component of the country's economy. Indonesia welcomes around 10 million foreign tourists every year, with most visitors being from nearby countries, like Malaysia, China, Singapore, Australia, East Timor, and India. The country experiences its peak tourist season from June to September, and sometimes during winters as well. During these periods, the fares are at their peak, but you will find a lot of hot single girls in the country. So, if dating is your first priority, visit Indonesia in June-Sept or December-January.

Indonesia is famous for its outdoor attractions, with beaches, islands, and mountains stealing the show. The country has a plethora of temples that are mesmerizing in terms of architecture and historical value. However, there are a few in-city spots in the country as well that attract a large number of visitors. With outdoor destinations being common, many travelers are now more interested in the city lifestyle of the countries. Therefore, instead of finding a lot of people on beaches and islands, you'll find them in cities, hanging out in museums and temples. Such spots include:

  • Borobudur Temple, Muntilan
  • Ulun Danu Beratan Temple, Bali
  • Prambanan Temple, Yogyakarta
  • Legian, Bali
  • Jalan Malioboro, Yogyakarta
  • National Monument, Jakarta
  • Taman Sari, Yogyakarta
  • Taman Mini Indonesia Indah, Jakarta
  • Waterbom Bali Indonesia, Bali
  • Taman Impian Jaya Ancol, Ancol Bay City

Indonesia is a growing economy. It is one of the fastest-growing economies in Asia and in the world. Thus, it offers a lot of business and work opportunities for expats. In major cities like Jakarta, you can find a lot of expats and immigrants, primarily from neighboring countries like China and Singapore. While Indonesia is not a popular education hub, students from all across Asia can be seen studying in Indonesian universities. All in all, you will find a large number of foreign travelers, exapts, and students in Indonesia, and therefore, the dating opportunities are endless.


Sex

As discussed, Indonesia is a slightly conservative country in terms of dating and relationships. Sex may or may not be considered taboo here, but it is something about which people prefer not to talk openly. Therefore, finding sex in the country might get a bit difficult, especially if your focus is on Indonesian girls. A quick tip is to stick to bigger cities like Jakarta and hang out around popular nightspots such as clubs, bars, and pubs. In these places, you are likely to find horny girls and gold diggers, which will make getting laid easy for you.

As far as foreign travelers are concerned, sticking to famous resort cities and tourist destinations can be helpful. Finding horny foreign travels is easy in Indonesia, but keep in mind that Indonesia is a huge country, and to get success for foreign travelers, you will need to visit the right places. While Jakarta can be a good place to find foreigners, visit islands like Bali, Lombok, and Gilli Islands to increase your chances of finding hot, single backpackers.


Sex Culture

Sex culture in Indonesia is conservative as the country has a strong religious and cultural background. You will need to be discrete while finding sex in the country, and if you tend to override the customs, be prepared to face some fanatic cockblockers. However, Indonesian girls are known to be horny, and if you play the game in the right way, you will surely succeed. Do some research at your own end and look for places where the rules are less strict.

In general, touristic areas are less liberal in terms of sex and casual dating. For instance, a few areas in Bali allow public nudity in spite of it being illegal in the country. So, islands and outdoor tourist spots are a great pick to find sex in Indonesia. While most people may be tempted to stay in Jakarta, the city might not be ideal for finding quick hookup opportunities with local girls. If you are looking to get laid quickly, prioritize tourist destinations. And you will find a lot of local girls in these places, too, so you don't have to rely only on foreign travelers.


One-Night Stands

If you are looking to get laid anyway, there are some places in Indonesia that can be rewarding. If you don't have any dating preferences and just want to have sex, the country has a lot of adult entertainment and strip clubs where you can easily find one-night stand opportunities. Some adult entertainment clubs to visit in Indonesia are:

  • Malio Club, Jakarta City
  • D's Place Bar, Jakarta City
  • Veneno Club, Surabaya City
  • Square Club & KTV, Batam City
  • Tobasa Club HDTI, Medan City
  • Bali Party Pub Crawl, Bandung Regency
  • Kos Pung Production, Buleleng regency
  • Cocoon Beach Club, Bandung Regency

At these places, you will find a lot of single, horny girls and gold diggers. Apart from adult clubs, you can find a few naturism spots in Bali. While it is recommended to maintain dignity in such areas and not indulge in any obscene acts, if you know how to seduce girls without being offensive, these places can turn out to be gold mines for you. Plus, you will find a lot of foreign tourists in these areas. Some public nudity places in Indonesia are:

  • Bali au Naturel, Singaraja
  • Laki Uma Villa, Denpasar

Indonesia is not known for its erotic massage parlors, but you can definitely give it a try. Look for some spas, especially in tourist areas. The key here is to find less-popular spas that are not under the spotlight. You are more likely to find hookup opportunities in such spas than in mainstream massage parlors. While you may be required to spend a few extra bucks in such spas, it's worth it if you are struggling to get girls from traditional methods. That being said, some of the best spas in Indonesia to find sex are:

  • Kempinski The Spa, Jakarta
  • Karsa Spa, Bali
  • Heavenly Spa by Westin, Bali
  • Delta Spa Kelapa Gading, Jakarta
  • My Spa, Banten
  • Zahra Spa, Bali


Best Places to Meet Single Girls

Indonesia is a big country, and to explore all the places, you will need at least a month or two. The country has a lot of excellent places to find single girls, but we'll boil them down to a few highly rewarding areas where you can enjoy instant success. When it comes to cities and regions, Jakarta, Yogyakarta, Surabaya, and the islands of Bali and Lombok are the best for finding single girls. Let's talk about the most rewarding areas in each of these places.

  • Jakarta - South Jakarta
  • Yogyakarta - KP. Klitren Lor
  • Surabaya - Old Town
  • Bali - Denpasar
  • Lombok - Pamenang

Please note that Bali and Lombok are big islands, and finding areas with the best places to meet girls can be difficult. The golden tip here is to stay in the capitals of these islands, and in the cities, stick to areas that are located near the sea. Coastal areas with beaches generally have the best nightspots as most single girls prefer beaches and beachside clubs over in-city spots.

If you are on a long trip to Indonesia, it's better to go independent. While these places are known for excellent dating opportunities, the best way to travel to Indonesia is to do it like a local. Limit the use of your internet to essential tasks only, and for searching for any local areas, talk to the locals. You will be surprised to unravel the amount of unique information you'll receive, which is not available anywhere on the internet. So, interact more with the locals, and find places where you can meet single girls. And maybe you'll discover a hidden place that no one but the locals know about.


Bars, Pubs and Nightclubs

Indonesia is known for its nightlife, as there are a lot of bars, nightclubs, pubs, and lounges spread across the country. Nightclubs and pubs are great spots for picking up girls. Most single girls visit these places to find handsome single men and get laid. If your only intention is to hook up, these spots can be rewarding. But with so many bars and clubs in the country, finding the ones that will lead to the best outcomes can be challenging. To make things easier for you, here are some of the best nightspots to visit in Indonesia.

  • Nightlife Karaoke, Jembrana Regency
  • Dragonfly, Jakarta
  • Sky Garden Bali, Bandung Regency
  • The Jaya Pub, Jakarta
  • Nu China, Jakarta
  • Colosseum Club, Jakarta
  • Club Jenja Bali, Bandung Regency
  • Equator Pub, Medan City
  • LXXY Bali, Bandung Regency
  • The Last Pub & Restaurant, Batam City

Apart from bars and nightclubs, the country also has some excellent restaurants, street-side cafes, and coffee shops where you can find young Indonesian girls. Not all Indonesians drink alcohol, so if you go to bars and pubs, you may only find foreigners. If you are more interested in locals, visit the following places:

  • Bakoel Koffie, Jakarta
  • Café Batavia, Jakarta
  • JADEN, Klaten Regency
  • Djournal Coffee, Jakarta
  • William's, Jakarta
  • La Costilla, Bandung City
  • Patio Venue & Dining, Jakarta
  • Lavita Bella Casual Dining, Palembang
  • Coffee Tree, Jakarta
  • Anomali Coffee, Makassar City

Feel free to explore and experiment and find new places on your own. Traveling becomes more fun when you make decisions independently, interact with locals, and gain useful insights that may help you find single girls. But if you don't have enough time to look for places and ideas on your own, try sticking to the renowned places mentioned above.


Shopping Malls

Shopping malls are excellent places for picking up girls. Indonesian girls, especially the ones who are rich end educated, prefer staying updated with the latest dress and fashion trends. They visit shopping malls every weekend, and if you do the same, your chances of finding local girls in Indonesia will rise significantly. While Indonesia is not known for its shopping malls, there are a lot of excellent malls in the country where you can experience the best-in-class shopping experience, along with finding a lot of single girls.

Some of the best shopping malls in Indonesia are:

  • Grand Indonesia, Jakarta
  • Mall of Indonesia, Jakarta
  • Discovery Shopping Mall
  • Beachwalk Shopping Centre, Badung Regency
  • Plaza Indonesia, Jakarta
  • Mall Taman Anggrek, Jakarta
  • Mall Taman Anggrek, Badung Regency
  • Pacific Place, Jakarta
  • Plaza Senayan, Jakarta
  • Grand Indonesia West Mall, Jakarta

When you visit Jakarta, don't miss out on the local and street markets. You may experience a modern feel in malls, but when it comes to experiencing the real essence of Indonesia, there's no better place than Indonesian markets. In these markets, you will find a lot of locals that visit these places readily for their day-to-day shopping. Besides, these markets are major attractions for tourists as well. Therefore, if you visit Indonesia, don't forget to visit the following markets.

  • Beringharjo Market, Yogyakarta
  • Floating Market, Banjarmasin
  • Tomohon Market, Manado
  • Sukawati Art Market, Bali
  • Gedebage Market, Bandung


Outdoors

Indonesia is all about outdoors, and if you are an admirer of nature, beaches, islands, and parks, Indonesia will be a paradise for you. The country consists of more than 17,000 islands, with each island being unique in itself. Most of the tourists visiting Indonesia are intrigued by the outdoor spots; therefore, you will find a lot of foreign travels when you explore the outdoors in Indonesia. But don't forget about the right season, especially if picking up girls is your priority.

That being said, some of the most popular outdoor destinations in Indonesia are;

  • Tanah Lot, Bali
  • Mount Batur, Bali
  • Gili Islands
  • Sacred Monkey Forest Sanctuary, Bali
  • Mount Bromo, Java
  • Mount Agung, Bali
  • Ijen, Java
  • Komodo National Park, Sunda Islands
  • Madakaripura Waterfall, Java
  • Goa Gajah, Bali

Indonesia has some excellent beaches as well. In Indonesia, beaches are one of the most popular attractions among tourists. Islands like Bali and Lombok attract millions of tourists primarily due to beaches. While most beaches in Indonesia do not allow public nudity, there are some private beaches where you can get in your birthday suit and pick up girls. Some of the best beaches in Indonesia are:

  • Pink Beach, Flores
  • Tanjung Aan Beach, Lombok
  • Nyang Nyang Beach, Bali
  • Padar Island, Flores
  • Karimunjawa Islands, Central Java
  • Koka Beach, Flores
  • Mawi Beach, Lombok
  • The 17 Islands, Flores
  • Gili Trawangan, Lombok
  • Kelingking Beach, Nusa Penida

Apart from the destinations mentioned above, Indonesia also has a lot of outdoor temples, national parks, waterfalls, zoos, and gardens. Besides, you can also enjoy activities like river rafting, paragliding, and bungee jumping in such areas. And most importantly, you will find a lot of backpackers, which will increase your chances of getting laid.


Universities and Colleges

Indonesia has a lot of renowned universities and colleges. Indonesian girls are serious about their education, and you will find a large share of Indonesian girls studying in universities. Picking up college girls in Indonesia is easy, as they are more open-minded and curious. Moreover, with foreign men giving more attention to Indonesian girls, they also want to get intimate with a hot westerner. Therefore, if you are a young, good-looking guy who knows how to approach and talk to girls, you will get success with Indonesian college girls for sure.

However, there are some do's and don'ts to follow when picking up girls in a college or university in Indonesia. Talking about the do's first, make sure to dress well. Indonesian girls often judge men by their looks, so the first step towards picking up a college girl in Indonesia is to look good. You don't need to look like Irwansyah or Arifin Putra (handsome Indonesian celebrities), but try to look presentable. Make sure your clothes are clean, well-ironed, and are trendy. Pair them up with the right shoes complete your look by applying some nice cologne. And yes, don't forget your haircut and grooming; your facial hair can go a long way in determining your overall look.

Secondly, be picky. You don't want to approach every girl you see. This will make you look like a desperate pervert, and you will not succeed. Moreover, you may attract some unwanted attention as well. When it comes to college dating, you want to keep things subtle. Wait patiently and look for a single girl or at least a girl who looks single. Wait for the time when she is alone, and try talking to her. Be confident and clear about your intentions. You might not get success quickly, but dating is a numbers game. The more you try, the better chances you have.

Coming to don'ts, don't be too direct or assertive. Being confident is good, but if you override a girl with your dating intentions, she will probably run away from you. Therefore, it critical to be patient and passive. Wait for the right opportunity, and once you find the right girl, approach her with confidence. Another thing you should avoid during college dating is to avoid entering college. Being a westerner, you'll probably look like a stranger when you enter a college. You will attract a lot of eyeballs, which will be a problem if you want to pick up girls in a college. Therefore, make sure to stay outside and wait for the girls to come out of college. Evening time, usually around 5-6 pm, is ideal for finding single girls outside colleges.

That being said, some of the best colleges and universities in Indonesia for picking up college girls are:

  • The University of Indonesia, Depok
  • Bogor Agricultural University, Bogor
  • Brawijaya University, Malang
  • Bandung Institute of Technology, Bandung
  • Universitas Gadjah Mada, Yogyakarta
  • Airlangga University, Surabaya


Relationship

As mentioned before, Indonesian girls are loyal, faithful, loving, and caring, making them ideal for long-term relationships. They may not be the ideal choice for hookups because of their conservative attitude, but if you are looking for a companion to stay alongside you forever, Indonesian girls would be an ideal pick. They are great cooks, too, so be prepared to enjoy some delicious Indonesian meal.

To get into a relationship with an Indonesian girl, you will need to spend most of your time in Jakarta as it is home to most local Indonesians in the country. In this city, you will find girls of all age groups, preferences, and education levels, making it easy for you to find a girl that best aligns with your attitude and preferences. To find girls for long-term relationships, bars and clubs may not be the ideal places. While you will find a lot of single girls at these locations, most of them will be interested in hookups and casual relationships.

To find local girls for serious relationships, visit in-city spots during the daytime, especially on weekends. These places primarily include cafes, restaurants, and shopping centers, but you can explore parks and plazas as well. That being said, visit the following places to find girls for long-term dating:

  • Taman Suropati, Jakarta
  • WAKI Japanese BBQ Dining, Jakarta
  • 1/15 Coffee, Jakarta
  • Café Batavia, Jakarta
  • Giyanti Coffee Roastery, Jakarta
  • Nitro Coffee, Jakarta
  • Guten Mørgen, Jakarta
  • OnThree, Jakarta
  • Plataran Dharmawangsa, Jakarta
  • Akira Back, Jakarta

Keep in mind that sustaining a relationship with an Indonesian girl requires work, time, and effort. You will need to be loyal and provide her with love and attention throughout your relationship. Besides, don't expect your relationship to be sex-intensive. While Indonesian girls are horny, they may not always be up for sex. So, make sure to find a perfect balance between sex and other aspects of your relationship.


Holiday Romance

Indonesia is one of the most popular honeymoon destinations in Asia. Couples from South Asian countries like India, Pakistan, Sri Lanka, and Bangladesh readily visit Indonesia for spending some quality time with their partners. If you have a girlfriend in Indonesia, there are so many places in the country where you can go with her and enjoy a memorable vacation as a couple. Some of the most romantic spots in Indonesia are;

  • Ubud, Bali
  • Gili Trawangan, Lombok
  • Pulo Cinta Eco Resort, Gorontalo
  • Ora Beach Eco Resort, Maluku
  • Nihiwatu Resort, Sumba
  • Kampung Sampireun Resort, Garut
  • Nikoi Island, Riau
  • Maratua Island, Derawan
  • Amanwana Luxury Resort, Pulau Moyo
  • Lembang, Bandung

Besides, you can always go for the standard option – book a resort or hotel and spend time together, getting a couple massage, and taking hot baths. Indonesia is filled with exquisite hotels and restaurants where you can have a great time with your loved one. Some of these spots to look out for are:

  • The Kayon Resort by Pramana, Bali
  • The Udaya Resorts & Spa, Bali
  • The Trans Resort, Bali
  • Natya Resort, Ubud
  • Wapa Di Ume, Ubud
  • Komaneka at Bisma, Bali
  • The Villas At AYANA Resort, Badung
  • The Sankara Resort, Ubud
  • The Royal Purnama Art Suites & Villas, Bali
  • Samabe Bali Suites & Villas, Badung


Tips for Successful Relationship

A relationship with an Indonesian girl is mostly simple and enjoyable. Indonesian girls are loving and caring, and they will act as a constant pillar of support for you. However, there are a few things you will need to do to ensure your relationship is successful and does not become a victim of misunderstandings or unnecessary arguments. Let's take a look at a few tips for a successful relationship with an Indonesian girl.

  • Don't look for sex all the time. As mentioned earlier, Indonesian girls have a lot of religious and cultural values, and they don't consider sex as the first priority in a relationship. They are quite horny, and they'll have sex with you for sure. But don't try to overdo it, or else you will send an impression that you are in the relationship only because you want to have sex.
  • Don't tease her with other girls. In some western countries, teasing your girlfriend by complementing and appreciating other girls is common. But in Indonesia, such actions can offend your girlfriend and can deteriorate your relationship. When taking an Indonesian girl, give all your love and attention to her and not to anyone else.
  • Take the relationship seriously. If you are young, say in your mid-20s, you may not take the relationship seriously. And you are right at your place because, in most western countries, the mid-20s is not the age to get married. But Indonesian girls take relationships seriously from a very young age. Even if your girlfriend is in her early 20s, she will think of marriage and family. If you want your relationship to be successful, be aware of that fact and show the girl that you are equally serious about the relationship.
  • Lastly, be real and don't show off. When it comes to getting laid, some Indonesian girls may look for rich guys, but for serious relationships, money is not the only factor that comes into play. Indonesian girls prefer guys who are real and trustworthy. If you show off and pretend to be someone you are not, you will give a bad impression, which will eventually affect your relationship. You don't want to be an international football player, guitarist, and painter at the same time. Be a simple guy who is confident of who he is.


Love

Indonesian girls are lovely, and if you spend some time with them, you will not be able to restrict yourself from loving them. They are loving and caring, and loving them is surely rewarding. They will not betray you or dump you for a guy who is more attractive or richer than you. But yes, if you don't act as per their expectations, they'll be quick to separate from you.

Thus, it is not at all complicated to love Indonesian girls. If you love them and stay loyal to them, they will love you and stay loyal to you. But if you betray or deceive them, they will not hesitate to break up with you. It is also easy to find out if an Indonesian girl loves you or not. These girls cannot fake love, and if they love you, it will be clearly visible in their actions.

Firstly, Indonesian women value love and feelings, and they will confess their love to you only if they really love you. So, if the girl has said that she loves you, it is already the bottom line. But if you want to be double-sure, you can look for some behavioral traits in the girl. For example, if the girl loves you, she will become more caring, sometimes even protective. For example, if she did not mind if you smoked a pack of cigarettes a day, but now she is insisting you to not do it, maybe she has developed some feelings for you.

Another indicator of love is when the girl insists you to meet her family. Indonesian girls are conservative and will introduce you to their family only if they are sure about spending the rest of their life with you. If they want you to meet your family, it is a signal that they love you.

In addition to knowing if the girl loves you or not, you will also need to identify if you love the girl. Feelings of love are complicated, and sometimes you may feel like you love someone when you actually don't. Take a break from the relationship, and try spending some time with other girls to determine whether you really love the girl you are dating or not. Giving your relationship a name and turning it into marriage can be a great decision, but before that, be completely sure that you love the girl.


How to Make Sure She Is the One

Now that you know you love the girl and she loves you, it's time to take your relationship forward. But before that, you will need to make sure if the girl you are dating is the right pick for you. While love is an important factor in a relationship, it is not the only thing to consider. There are other aspects that collectively determine whether you and the girl you are dating is ideal for you or not. Let's take a quick look at some of these factors.

Firstly, see if the girl is adjusting. Relationships need sacrifices, and if the girl is not ready to compromise on some of her comforts, maybe your relationship will not succeed in the long term. For instance, she might have to change her job or drop out of college. She might have to go against her family, or maybe, she has to move out of her city. Such adjustments are required in a relationship, and you need to make sure your girl is ready for them.

Are you ready to make some compromises? A relationship can be successful only if both the partners are willing to give up on something. You might love the girl but in order to make your relationship a success. For instance, the girl may not agree to move out of Indonesia. In such a case, you will need to move to Indonesia. This means you have to give up your friends, job, education, etc. that you had. Take note of these factors before making any decision to ensure your relationship does not end up in problems in the future.


Marriage

Indonesia is a great country to get married. There are so many wedding spots in the country that you will get bamboozled about which one to choose. We will get to the locations later, but before that, let's discuss some considerations to keep in mind when getting married in Indonesia.

First and foremost, keep in mind that Indonesia is a Muslim-dominant country. While the country is considered to be liberal when compared to other Muslim nations, there is still a degree of objection for inter-faith marriages. If you are a non-Muslim marrying a Muslim girl, you may face some cultural roadblocks. Make sure to address these hurdles beforehand.

A similar issue can also arise with the girl's family. If the girl is a Muslim, her family may not approve of your marriage, especially if the family is conservative and less open-minded. If you encounter this difficulty, talk to the girl and look for the solution. Ideally, it is the girl's responsibility to convince her parents, but in some cases, your input may also be required. Take time and solve any family-related issues before planning your marriage.

When it comes to traveling, you will not face any issues in Indonesia. It is a renowned country in the world, and no matter where your family or friends live, they will be easily able to attend your marriage in Indonesia. Even if you organize your wedding on an island, your guests will not face any hurdles as there is excellent connectivity between all the islands located in Indonesia.


Wedding

Indonesia is full of islands, and islands make excellent spots for destination weddings. A large number of couples from all over Asia come to Indonesia to organize their wedding. Indonesia is an inexpensive country, and you can conduct a great wedding reception without spending a lot of money. Besides, there are so many places to choose from that you will always find a spot that suits your requirements. In this section, we'll discuss two primary forms of wedding venues you'll find in Indonesia: outdoor destinations and resorts & hotels.

Firstly, let's take a look at the best outdoor wedding destinations in Indonesia.

  • Infinity Chapel, Conrad Bali
  • Prambanan Temple, Central Java
  • Pine Forest Camp, Bandung
  • Mirage Wedding Chapel, Bali
  • Batavia Marina, Jakarta
  • The White Dove, Banyan Tree Ungasan Bali
  • Heritage Museum Bank Indonesia, Jakarta
  • Jeeva Klui, Lombok

While there's no better way to get married than in the arms of nature, some people prefer an indoor setting to get married. And getting married that way has its own benefits. You are in the middle of the city, and if anything goes wrong, you can get instant help. Besides, these types of arrangements are more comfortable. Everyone can sit and eat without any hindrances caused due to weather. If you prefer hotels and resorts to get married, check out the following spots;

  • The Kayon Resort by Pramana,Bali
  • The Udaya Resorts & Spa, Bali
  • The Legian, Bali
  • The Trans Resort, Bali
  • Chapung Sebali, Bali
  • The Mulia, Bali
  • Wapa Di Ume Ubud, Bali
  • Komaneka at Bisma, Bali
  • Four Seasons Resort, Bali
  • W Bali - Seminyak, Bali


Family Life

Indonesia is a great pick for you if you are looking for a place to live with your family. Considered as one of the safest countries in Asia, Indonesia is an ideal place for women and children too. All areas of the country are equally safe, with crime rates being minimal and limited only to minor robberies.

Indonesia is a great country to work in. It is a fast-developing economy, and people of all skill sets and experiences can find work here. If you are a digital nomad, there's nothing to worry about as there are a lot of opportunities for working remotely in the country. Most importantly, the cost of living is low in Indonesia, and even if you are learning average income, you can lead a good-quality life in Indonesia. Plus, internet speed and connectivity in the country are also good. What else does a digital nomad need?

Indonesia has a well-structured education system, with the best-quality education provided in schools and colleges. If you or your wife want to pursue higher education, or you are concerned about the education of your children, get rid of your concerns as Indonesia has some of the best schools and colleges to offer in the region. The cost of education is also minimal, so you don't have to spend a lot on education.

Lastly, Indonesia has excellent food. Whether you're a vegan or a non-veg, you will find food of all types. Therefore, you don't have to worry about looking for imported food items to cater to your eating requirements. All in all, Indonesia is a great country to live with your family; there are excellent work and education opportunities, the crime rate is low, and the food is diverse and can cater to the taste buds of all people.


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