Medan

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Medan dating guide advises how to meet single girls. You just need to know the basic steps how to date Indonesian women. Learn how to arrange dates with hot Indonesian girls, how to take your relationship to the next level and how to find your soulmate and fall in love. Read more on how to date local women and where to meet girls in Medan, Indonesia.


Girls in Medan:

  • Looks of girls: 3 / 5
  • Attitude of girls: 2 / 5
  • Loyalty of girls: 3.5 / 5
  • Education level of girls: 3 / 5

Dating in Medan:

  • Chance of arranging dates: 2.5 / 5
  • Casual dating culture: 2 / 5
  • Online dating popularity: 2.5 / 5

Sex in Medan:

  • Women's sexual activity: 2 / 5
  • One-night stands: 1 / 5

More about Medan:

  • Nightlife in general: 3 / 5
  • Locals' English level: 1.5 / 5
  • Moving around the city: 2.5 / 5
  • Budget per day: US$20 - $150
  • Accommodation: US$5 - $80

Dating

Dating Indonesian girls in Medan is one of the unique experiences that you do not want to miss on your tour of this amazing city. The girls are beautiful yet wild mostly because of the ethnicity of the city. They are friendly with both strangers and locals, they have feminine characteristics that make them very desirable.

While many people compare these girls with Japanese and Korean girls, they are very different from them. You will get girls from different ethnic groups in this city such as Javanese, Malay, Batak, and others. These girls are very sensitive and beautiful, which makes them very different from others.

Apart from these groups, you will also see some girls with Chinese and Indian backgrounds that are settled in Medan. They have very unique characteristics of their country that separates them from the other local girls. Unlike many other girls from different countries, the girls in Medan city are not attracted to money that much.

They have a submissive nature and are very mature compared to all the other types of girls. Generally, they do not have any aggressive characteristics and do not engage in any argument around them. While the majority of the girls in the city are Muslims, they do not take a step back from having fun or following modern culture.

However, it plays a very vital role in the culture and relationships. You have a very high chance of getting a date with an Indonesian girl in Medan as the city comes in 4th place based on population. If you get into a relationship, then you will need to follow many rules and regulations of society as most people follow Islamic rules.


Dating Culture

Dating is a much more common thing in Medan compared to having sex or other casual hanging out. Maybe most of the girls belong to Muslim culture, but they do not think twice when it comes to having fun. You can have a very fun relationship in the city if you stay respectful towards them.

Dating is mostly good when asked nicely, chances are next to none if you are flirting with someone to get in a relationship. So, make sure to make a flirting approach to any girl you like in the city. The majority of the women are chatty and friendly, which makes it easier to interact with them and to start a nice conversation.

Do not expect them to make the first move as they are shy about relationships. The city is not very familiar with ex-pats or tourists as the number is very low compared to other locations. So, tourists are seen very differently from a local boy and have a higher chance of getting a date.

As society is male-dominated and structured with Muslim rules, most of the girls might not be comfortable talking with a stranger and feel scared. You will have to make a very light approach to the girls to make them stay. Another thing that is very important is the language, Indonesian girls in Medan city do not speak English very well.

You will have to learn the Bahasa language which is most spoken in the city. However, the language might change depending on the origin and background of the girl. So, you need to be prepared for before asking her out. It can be a very hard challenge to make a conversation if you do not know the languages well.


Women

Indonesian women in Medan city are very friendly and feminine in nature. As most girls in the city are from a Muslim background, they do not engage in conversations very easily. Following the culture, most fo the girls with Muslim background wear covered dresses. However, they are not old fashioned in the dressing or any other factors.

They follow modern fashion, music, and other things to keep updated. Girls from different religions and cultures live in this city, but all of them have one thing in common that is maturity. Most of the Indonesian girls in Medan city are very mature from a very young age. They like to have fun and stay out of any arguments and trouble.

They are not much attracted to the money, but as the number of foreigners in the city is very low, they like to make conversation with foreigners. But do not expect them to make a conversation with you on their own. They are very conservative about talking with strangers or making conversation in the public.

Women in Medan do not like any type of flirting with them or casual relationships. As most of the girls are very mature, they can understand the intention very fast. Getting in a relationship is very hard in this city because all the women are either associated with jobs, others are forcefully staying in the house because of society.


Indonesian Girls (age 18 - 29)

If you are looking for Indonesian girls in the city, then you have the best chance in this age range. The girls of this age range are in a transition period, they are eager to get in a relationship and explore adulthood. Compared to girls with other age ranges, young girls have less maturity.

They like to have fun at the moment but still do not expect them to make the first move. Most young girls are interested in foreign people and you have an increased chance of having a date with them. Most of the teenage girls in the city are not very much adventurers, pretty, and curious.

The girls in this age range are mostly associated with jobs or studying in schools and colleges. Make sure to dress well and have a confident approach to them to increase the chances of impressing them. Also, they have a very high curiosity about foreign culture and guys.

If you are good looking, then you have increased chances to get a girl for a date. Some of the most common places to find them are cafes, shopping malls, colleges, clubs. As they like to have fun, you can find them also in parks, tourist attractions, and other places.


Indonesian Women (age 30 - 45)

While most of the young girls are not much mature in the term of life, these girls have developed the maturity part. So, it will be a bit harder for you to get a date with the girls in this age range compared to younger girls.

By reaching this age, most of the girls become more conservative about having conversations with foreigners or having any conversation with any unknown person. The girls in this age range are mostly devoted to family life or preparing for their retired life from the job. Finding a single woman in this age range is hard but not impossible.

There are many single women in the city that you can find easily but to make a conversation, you will have to give a lot of effort. Like the younger girls, good looks are not enough to get a date with Indonesian women. You will have to be straight about your intention to them and impress them with your words.

Also, make sure to not flirt with the women in this age range as most of them will back off thinking that you have sexual intentions. Coming to sex, it is not very easy to get even after you get in a relationship with these women. They will make sure that you are the one and take their time to get into any sexual intimacy.


Indonesian Ladies (age 45+)

Chances are very low in finding any date in this age range because most of the women are not simply interested in relationships. However, you still have some chances if you come across any wealthy women. You will need to search a lot harder compared to all the other age ranges to get a woman in this range.

There are some divorcees, single, widows out there in the city that might be interested in getting into a relationship again but you have to work very hard to impress them. The society also plays a very important role in those women not wanting to get into any relationship.


Foreign Girls (tourists, expats, students, etc.)

As mentioned earlier, the number of foreigners living in the city is very low. Also, there is not a wave of tourists coming and going in the city, which makes the foreign people very rare. Most of the foreigners did not show any interest in the girls in this city in the past.

However, things have changed very much now as the Indonesian girls are getting in a relationship with foreign people often. However, the number of tourists has increased over the years and you can find many foreign girls in this city. But still compared to other places, the number of foreign girls is very low.

You can visit the tourist attractions and colleges to find foreign girls who are staying in the city to study. If you do not know the native language of the city very well, then meeting another foreigner is the best thing that you can do.


Sex

Sex is not very common in the city as the girls are very shy about this subject. Most of the girls might not get into any sexual intimacy for a long time even after going into a relationship. It depends very much on how you approach and present yourself to these women. Based on their understanding of you, they will decide if they can trust you for sex.

However, that does not mean that you will not get sex in the city. There are many sex workers in the city that are ready to give you a very good experience. Most of these girls do not come out of their places because of social regulations.

The chances might be low, but you can visit some of the places in the city to meet impulsive girls who do not obey rules and want to get into sexual relationships with foreigners.

As a foreigner, you have a higher chance of getting sex compared to all the other local boys. The girls in this city are very much interested in guys from different countries. So, if you re able to open your eyes in perfect places, then you do not have much problem finding sex.


Sex Culture

Sex culture is not much open in this city and they like to keep it very private. That does not mean that the girls are not interested in it, they are very much curious about sex and want to explore it. However, society in the city makes them go backward about any of these topics.

As the country is dominated by men, most of the girls do not make any contact outdoors. You will need to get into a stable relationship and make the girl believe that you are in it to marry. They will take their time but ultimately get into sexual relationships, when they are sure about you.


One-Night Stands

One night stands are very low compared to all the other countries. Mostly because of religion and cultural belief, there are very low and maybe next to none chances for finding one night stands among the local girls.

However, If you want to have a one night stand, then you will have to look for the girls who are ready to do it in exchange for the money. There are many girls in the city that are prepared to have a one-night stand. You will just have to look at the best places for it.


Best Places to Meet Single Girls

Some of the best places in Medan city to find single girls are tourist attractions. Most of the tourist attractions are filled with local or foreign crowns most of the time. Compared to tourists, the number of local people is high in these places. Apart from that, you can visit the shopping malls, multiplexes, cafes, clubs, and others.


Bars, Pubs and Nightclubs

Although girls in Medan city are not very independent and forced to stay at home, they manage to take their time and attend a beautiful time in the bars, pubs, and nightclubs in the city.

Visiting these bars will increase your chances of finding single girls for a date. Here are some of the most common and popular bars in the city that you need to know before stepping your foot to the city.

  • Corner Cafe Raya
  • The Tavern
  • Cava Lounge
  • Harbour 9
  • Entrance Music temple
  • Tobasa Club
  • Social House (SoHo)
  • Prime Bar
  • Naga3 Beer House
  • Medan Club


Shopping Malls

Shopping girls are one of the best places in the city to find to meet single women. As they like to stay modern and updated, you can find the girls in the branded stores in the shopping malls.

Apart from that, the food Zone, gaming zone are some of the most common places that you need to look for single girls. Here are some of the shopping malls that you need to visit in the city.

  • Medan Mall
  • Sun Plaza
  • Plaza Medan Fair
  • Thamrin Plaza
  • Centre Point Medan
  • Hermes Place Polonia


Outdoors

There are some tourist attractions in the city that you need to visit to find single girls. The number of tourists might be less in the city but local girls are often found in these famous attractions.

You have a very high chance to find a single girl for a date in these places, even if they can help you tour these places. Here are some of the locations that you need to visit this beautiful city.

  • Istana Maimun
  • Masjid Raya AI-Mashun
  • Rahmat International Wildlife Museum & Gallery
  • Graha Maria Annai Velangkanni
  • Tjong A Fie Mansion


Universities and Colleges

The education of this city was not very good in the past. However, things have changed very much in the last few years and many universities and colleges have introduced higher education. The majority of the girls in the city are now going for higher education to pursue their dream.

The literacy rate has increased very much in the city and the education system has developed very much. Although the number of foreigners is low in this city, there are some students from different cities and countries who come here to study in this city. Here are some of the most famous colleges and universities in the city.

  • University of Sumatera Utara
  • Universitas Medan Area
  • State University of Medan
  • Universitas HKBP Nommensen
  • Indonesian Methodist University


Relationship

Having a relationship in Medan city is not very easy as the girls are very conservative in nature. As most of the girls in the city belong to the Islam background, they need to follow many rules and restrictions. Society is also not very open-minded when it comes to relationships.

Girls are friendly in this city but they do not talk with strangers often and stay out of the arguments. However, as the number of foreigners is very low in the city, the girls are very curious about foreigners. It might be hard to get in a relationship, but once you get in a relationship, it stays for quite a long time.


Holiday Romance

The city is not very well known for being a travel destination, but there are some foreigners that you can find here. Tourists who want to explore the different cities and cultures of Indonesia mostly visit this place. The city holds some well-known tourist attractions that invite foreigners all over the country.

Often you can see some foreigner couples hanging out in these beautiful places. If you manage to get a beautiful date in this city, then these places will help you to boost your love and make it memorable.


Tips for Successful Relationship

Having a relationship with Indonesian girls in this city is hard, but it is harder to manage the relationship successfully. These girls take their time to get in a relationship and make sure that you are the one before saying yes.

You do not want to mess up the whole relationship with a single wrong move as it takes a lot of time to get in a relationship with girls in this city. Here are some tips that can help you to get into a relationship.

  • Make sure to not show off money or assets as the girls in this city are not attracted to money and hate to show off
  • Do not show any type of affection in the public places as the society is not very open-minded about it
  • Avoid flirting with the girls in this city as they might take a step back from the relationship


Love

Girls in the city look for their true love when they get mature enough. You will need to make a lot of effort to fall in love with the girls in this city. They are not very talkative to strangers, which makes it very hard to make a conversation with them.

You have to be honest and polite with them to earn their trust and make them trust that you are in the relationship in the long run to reach their heart. Once they are in a relationship, they stay very loyal and loving.


How to Make Sure She Is the One

It is very hard to know if you have chosen the right life partner for you or not. As the majority of girls are not attracted towards money, it is very hard to detect if someone is in a relationship with different motives.

If she introduces you to her family, then chances are very high that she is the one. Also, if she is the perfect one for you, then she will not hesitate to go into sexual intimacy with you.


Marriage

There are many rules and rituals tied with marriages in this city. Being a Muslim dominated country, you might face a lot of problem marrying a Muslim girl if you are not Muslim. There are many social objections that might come only our way.

If the girl is Muslim and you are non-muslim, then the family of girls might not get permission for the marriage and it is very common in this city. However, most of the cases like these get solved before the marriage and it happens very peacefully.


Wedding

Weddings are held greatly even without spending a lot of money. As there are many islands nearby the city, you can see both indoor and destination weddings on these islands. There are many spots available in the city, where one can get married. Weddings are conducted in the presence of both family and relatives.


Family Life

Most of the girls in this city are very family-oriented and tend to stay with their families. Family plays a very important role in their life to guide them and keep them out of harm’s way. The girls are not very open-minded to their family about their relationships but taking their permission is a must for getting married. Many women devote their life taking care of the family.


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