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Siem Reap dating guide advises how to meet single girls. You just need to know the basic steps how to date Cambodian women. Learn how to arrange dates with hot Cambodian girls, how to take your relationship to the next level and how to find your soulmate and fall in love. Read more on how to date local women and where to meet girls in Siem Reap, Cambodia.

Hot girls of Siem Reap at the Temple club


Girls in Siem Reap:

  • Looks of girls: 3.75 / 5
  • Attitude of girls: 4 / 5
  • Loyalty of girls: 4 / 5
  • Education level of girls: 3.5 / 5

Dating in Siem Reap:

  • Chance of arranging dates: 4 / 5
  • Casual dating culture: 3.5 / 5
  • Online dating popularity: 3.25 / 5

Sex in Siem Reap:

  • Women's sexual activity: 3.25 / 5
  • One-night stands: 3.5 / 5

More about Siem Reap:

  • Nightlife in general: 4 / 5
  • Locals' English level: 3.25 / 5
  • Moving around the city: 3.5 / 5
  • Budget per day: US$70 - $350
  • Accommodation: US$10 - $270

Dating

If you are visiting Siem Reap, one of the major cities in Cambodia, you'll certainly be awestruck by the beauty and liberal attitude of the Cambodian girls. They are certainly not easy, but not as difficult as western girls either. And if you're tired of dating the same kind of women over and over again, Cambodian girls can be a great change. Whether you're looking for hookups, casual dating, serious commitments, or even marriage, these girls turn out to be a perfect fit.

Dating culture in Cambodia is quite open and liberal, thanks to the increasing inflow of tourists. They might not be the best English speakers, but they'll do good to sustain a conversation. Plus, dating Cambodian girls is no less than a roller coaster ride. They are bold but respectful and loving, and adventurous but great homemakers, too. So, if you've booked your tickets to Siem Reap, be prepared to have some of the most thrilling dating experiences of your life.


Dating Culture

The dating culture in Siem Reap, and other major Cambodian cities, is liberal, and you'll rarely come across any cockblockers and aggressive dudes creating problems for you. However, don't expect Siem Reap to be like Miami or Bangkok, where all you need to do is visit a club, show some cash, and you'll see a bunch of chicks ready to get laid. It won't be that easy in Siem Reap, and for rightful reasons. More than 97 percent of the Cambodian population practice Buddhism, a conservative religion. Thus, you will not see girls wearing bikini tops and ripped shorts in clubs trying to seduce you and extract cash out of your pocket.

Instead, you will need to put in some efforts to win the heart of a Cambodian girl. Although these girls are bold and fearless, they have a touch of elegance. They prefer traditional dating culture where you'll approach them with some flowers and try to convince them to go out on a date with you. Don't think spanking butts of girls in a club would work here; Cambodian girls are respectful, and they would expect the same from your end too. Once you get the gist of dating in the country, picking up girls will come in easy because, as discussed earlier, Cambodian girls are not difficult to impress and date.


Women

The population of Siem Reap is around 150,000, so you can expect a decent number of females in the city. Since the city is a popular resort town and a popular tourist destination, you can find a lot of tourist girls as well, especially if you visit in the right season. The education system of Cambodia is not great, and the women are not the most educated. Their beliefs and customs might contradict yours; however, that's the beauty of cross-border dating. So, let's dive into the females of Siem Reap. If you like women with traditional Asian features then you will find these girl to be very beautiful. They are not extremely fair, rather towards then tan side and have beautiful petite bodies. Small eyes, silky hair and wide foreheads are some common feature.


Cambodian Girls (age 18 - 29)

Young girls make a large population in Siem Reap. Since the city attracts a lot of tourists, you will find a lot of girls working as part-time workers in bars, restaurants, and clubs. It gives you easy access to girls, which makes picking them up and setting up a date an effortless process. You can also find teens and younger girls near colleges as well. The city has a bunch of educational institutions like Angkor University and Build Bright University. Hanging out near these places during the evening can come in handy in finding young Cambodian girls.

The girls aged 22-25 are the easiest to date if you're looking for casual relationships. They are grown-up and mature enough to get engaged in hookups and one-night stands, and young enough to not to think about marriage. You can find them in bars and clubs as well, especially on weekends. Impressing them is easy, too. Be sure you're looking, and approach them with confidence. So, get rid of the nervousness and follow the "dress to impress" rule for Cambodian girls. Plus, looking rich can help top (renting expensive cars or bikes, wearing branded clothes, etc.)


Cambodian Women (age 30 - 45)

Cambodian women are comparatively less liberal and have a slightly rural attitude. They prefer performing household chores and spending less time outside their home. However, Siem Reap is a resort town, and most women come here to work. And most working women are used to talking to different people from different countries; thus, they are not too conservative. The Holy Grail, to finding open-minded Cambodian women, is to spend time near popular workplaces and offices in the country. You can visit around lunch-time and "pick up' women from nearby restaurants and cafes. Online dating can turn out to be an excellent technique in picking up women in Cambodia. Most females in the country (aged 25-35) use online dating for relationships and hookups, and if you want to increase your chances of getting laid, be sure to spend some time on dating sites like Asian Dating and Asian Brides.

Hot older women at Angkor club


Cambodian Ladies (age 45+)

If you're attracted to mature women and cougars, Siem Reap can be a rewarding place. Many ladies in the city work in massage parlors, hotels, and restaurants, and some of them are quite horny. It won't hurt if you try approaching them and asking out for a date or a quick hookup. But, be sure not to cross your line and stay respectful throughout the process. Men might get carried away by looking at the liberal dating culture and stunning ladies, but at the end of the day, Cambodia is a conservative country, and you don't want to offend the locals.


Foreign Girls (tourists, expats, students, etc.)

Siem Reap is a popular tourist destination, and you will find a lot of tourist girls in the city during the months of December and January. It is the peak tourist season because the days are sunny and dry. Although things might get a bit expensive during this time of the year, it is worth it as you will get a chance to interact with thousands of tourists.

In case you are wondering why so many tourists visit Siem Reap, it's because of its ancient temples, such as:

  • Angkor Wat
  • Bayon
  • Ta Prohm Temple
  • Angkor Thom
  • Preah Khan

The city has some excellent markets as well, like ANM Khmer Market and Street 08. If you're not into temples and historical sites, you can find foreign girls in these places as well.

You might not find a lot of foreign students in the city. Although there are a bunch of excellent colleges, they are not internationally renowned, and therefore, they don't attract a lot of foreign students. Thus, tourists are the only foreign exchange you can expect.

Angkor Wat


Sex

Getting sex is not as feasible as it is in other major resort cities like Miami and Gold Coast. But if you stay consistent and put in some effort, you can get success. To start off, identify which group you want to target. Siem Reap provides ample opportunities for picking up both locals as well as tourists, but you will not be able to have success with both simultaneously. For instance, if you want to pick locals, you will have to spend more time in the city, in places where more local girls arrive. And if you are more into tourists, you will have to focus more on popular tourist destinations. If you have a long trip planned (a month or two), you can try both one by one, but if you're visiting the city for a week or so, make sure to prioritize who you want to pick up.

Sex with foreign girls might come in easy as both you and the girl are looking for casual hookups. So you can probably get laid on your first meet itself, without any strings attached. To have sex with the locals, you will need to do some hard work. You will need to ask a girl out on a date and wait for a few dates before getting laid. A typical Cambodian girl might take three to five dates to decide whether she wants to have sex with you or not. If it's a no from her side, leave with a smile on your face and look for other options.


Sex Culture

The sex culture in Cambodia is not the most liberal, but it's not restrictive either. You will find enough gold diggers near clubs and bars, so you won't fall short of sex if you have some cash to spend. If not, you'll have to stick to the traditional mode of picking up girls, which thankfully is quite easy in Siem Reap. You will find numerous horny girls and women in the city, especially during night time.

Talking about the night time, it is the best period to pick up girls in Siem Reap. Plus, the city has a lot of excellent nightspots as well. We'll come to the actual places in a while, but keep in mind that nightclubs and bars are the most rewarding. However, that does not mean you ditch night markets, restaurants, and shopping malls as they can offer some excellent opportunities too.


One-Night Stands

One night stands are common in Siem Reap. If you are focusing on tourists, you will find a bunch of ladies looking for hookups. Needless to say, you should look good, confident, and have an attractive personality. And being rich (at least looking rich) would be an icing on the cake. You can find a lot of horny tourist girls in the nightclubs, and if you find one looking to have sex, you're getting laid for sure.

One night stands with locals are less probable, because (a) you will not find a lot of locals moving around in the peak tourist season, and (b) of course, they are conservative, as discussed before. Don't lose hope, though, as you can get lucky. You never know you may find a local hooker in a bar looking to hook up with young dudes.

A quick way to have sex is by picking up gold diggers or sugar babies. Else, you can also check out some massage parlors. Not all offer extra services, but in some spas, you can enjoy soft sex if you pay an additional amount. You can also do the same with the staff in your hotel. But again, don't get disrespectful, and if they refuse to entertain your demands, accept the rejection with humility.


Best Places to Meet Single Girls

The places you should visit depend entirely upon when and who you are trying to pick up. Talking about the daytime first, there are not a lot of options to choose from, and you will probably need to rely on tourists. Thus finding a bunch of hot backpackers visiting the temples can be a rewarding pick. Contrarily, you can spend time in the city as well, but don't expect a lot of action. A quick tip is to put in more effort on weekends because that is the time when most local girls and women are free from their schools, colleges, and offices.

On the weekend, you will find a lot of girls visiting shopping malls, markets, coffee shops, and cafes, and you can do the same to interact with them and increase your chances of finding a date.

The nighttime is way more rewarding than the daytime, and for obvious reasons. With so many clubs, bars, pubs, night markets, and restaurants in the city, you will never fall short of locations in the night. The nightlife of Siem Reap has been discussed in detail in the following section.


Bars, Pubs and Nightclubs

Bars, pubs, and nightclubs are prevalent in Siem Reap, so much so, that the main area to pick up girls during the night is called Pub Street. And, if your intentions are of hooking up and nothing else, this is the place you want to spend your night at. Some other sites apart from Pub Street where you can find a bunch of nightspots and decent chances to pick up girls are:

  • Central Market St.
  • Street 10
  • Street 11
  • Street 08
  • The Ln

Luckily, all these areas are located in the near vicinity of each other, so you can explore all these places in one night itself. Now that you know the areas to visit, let's talk about the particular spots.

The city is more about bars and pubs, so if you don't find girls in clubs, don't hesitate to explore the bars in the city. The best nightclubs, bars, and pubs in Siem reap are:

If you find other clubs, pubs, or bars, feel free to give them a try. But make sure there are enough people;e in there to reward you for your time and money. If you don't find success in any of these spots, you can try the restaurants. Siem Reap has some excellent places to dine, such as:

Hot local girls at The Angkor What? club


Shopping Malls

Shopping malls and markets are underrated spots to pick up both local and tourist girls. Siem Reap is a shopping hotspot; you will find tons of interesting markets in the city. Whether your intention is shopping or dating, you can achieve your targets in the markets and malls of Siem Reap. That being said, some of the best shopping malls in the city are:

  • Lucky Mall
  • Angkor Trade Center
  • The Heritage Walk
  • Sawas Dee Ka Shop
  • T Galleria

However, don't get stuck in the loop of lavish malls and try exploring local street markets as well. Some of the best local markets in Siem Reap are:

  • Psar Chas
  • ANM Khmer Market
  • Noon Night Market
  • Phsar Leu Thom Tmey
  • Siem Reap Night Market

Moreover, you can visit these markets during the daytime to find local women and ladies. Females who don't go to school, college, or work usually take care of the house chores, which include daily shopping. They visit the markets in the late morning or early afternoon to shop for groceries and other necessary home items. If you visit these places during the first half of the day, you can create some excellent opportunities for yourself to find some single women.

If you find a woman walking alone in the market, spend a few minutes analyzing her attitude. You can determine whether she is horny and liberal or conservative and shy by the way she walks and talks to other people. If she seems open-minded, you can be assertive and approach her. But again, if she restricts or refuses, step back and move away.

View of Siem Reap Art Center Night Market from the other side of Siem Reap River


Outdoors

Do you crave adventures? If yes, then Siem Reap can provide you with the perfect dose of entertainment. There are several activities in the city which you can enjoy; it can enhance your chances of meeting foreign tourists as well. So it's a win-win situation for you, as you will enjoy to the fullest as well as get an opportunity to interact with hot backpackers. Some outdoor activities for you to try in Siem Reap are:

  • Angkor Hot Air Balloon Classic Ride: An excellent recreational activity, Hot Air Balloon Ride over the forest of Siem Reap, is a delight to try.
  • Small, Big Circuit, and Banteay Srei Tour: This 2-day tour of Angkor Wat is an excellent pick for you if you don't want to invest a lot of time visiting the tourist destinations. This tour gives you a quick visit to all the major attractions of the city.
  • Private Angkor Wat Tour: If you want to enjoy the tourist spots to the fullest, you should go for this tour. It provides you with a private experience of the Angkor Wat, and you can uncover the wonders of the place at your own pace.
  • Half-Day Kompong Phluk, Tonle Sap Lake: This half-day tour takes you from Siem Reap to Tonle Sap Lake and then to Kompong Phluk.
  • Angkor Wat Park Zip Line Adventure: Visit the Angkor Wat Park and enjoy the thrilling zipline.

Apart from the activities listed above, there are several other things you can do in Siem Reap, such as Kulen Mountain Waterfall Small Groups, Battambang Full Day Tour to Bamboo Train, Killing Cave & Sunset, Kulen Waterfall & 1000 Lingas Join-in Tour, and Bike ride the Siem Reap Countryside. And, you can try heart on your target of picking up girls and spend more time enjoying these activities for a day or two.


Universities and Colleges

Siem Reap is one of the education hubs of Cambodia and has a lot of excellent colleges and universities. These places are excellent spots for picking up girls as well, as most young girls in Cambodia are studying in colleges or schools. The two most popular universities in Siem Reap are:

  • University of Southeast Asia
  • Angkor University

You can hang out nearby these colleges during the evening when the classes end. Most girls prefer visiting street food stalls after college, and you can do the same if you want to pick up college girls. However, be mindful that being too assertive or aggressive towards college girls can be troublesome, and you might get frowned upon by the locals. Thus, it is better to be passive around college girls, especially when a lot of people are around.


Relationship

There are no second thoughts on why Cambodian girls can be a perfect pick for relationships and long-term dating. One of the primary reasons is that they prefer relationships too. As discussed earlier, hookup culture is not prevalent in Cambodia, and most girls prefer slow, steady, and progressive dates. So, if you are a man of commitments and relationships, Cambodia is one of the best places you can be.

There are a few dos and don'ts of being in a relationship with a Cambodian girl. Talking about the dos first, there's no problem being emotional or romantic. Cambodian girls are sensitive and loving too, so if you project similar feelings, your relationship will flourish. Secondly, it is crucial to show love and attention. Although Cambodian girls are not needy, they will expect you to be available for calls and text messages. Sending good morning and good night texts is an excellent way to develop love in your relationship. Also, it is crucial to be punctual. Don't be late on dates or make her wait, as she will not appreciate it.

Now, let's discuss the don'ts. One of the biggest mistakes guys make when dating a Cambodian girl is to expect sex early. Although you will eventually get it, don't be desperate for it as Cambodian girls would take some time to get ready to share the bed with you. On average, these girls might take five to seven dates to agree to have sex with you. Let them take charge, and don't show that you're here only for sex. Another thing to avoid is disrespect. No, we're not talking about verbal abuse or other disrespectful acts (of course, you cannot do those either). Sometimes, you might get carried away and unknowingly speak something about their country or culture. Cambodian people are patriotic and love their culture, and that's the last thing you want to talk about.


Holiday Romance

So, you're a romantic person, aren't you? If yes, then Siem Reap would be an excellent place to fulfill your passion for love and romance. Cambodian girls strive for long, romantic relationships, and it will certainly provide you an upper hand when compared to other countries. You can do a holiday romance with both tourists and local girls. Both have their pros and cons, and let's discuss them quickly.

Talking about tourists first, dates can come in easy when you're trying to date a foreign traveler. Since both she and you know that you will be together only for a short duration, things proceed faster. You can set up a date quickly, maybe instantly. Romance with a tourist would be more like casual, accelerated flirting, where you'll meet twice or thrice and eventually end up on a bed. You can stretch things longer, but the chances of a traveler committing to a long-term relationship are bleak. You may extend things forward, though, by exchanging numbers and keeping in touch; it depends upon the individual you're dating.

Romancing with locals is more rewarding, but tricky as well. As Cambodian girls prefer long-term relationships, they will appreciate someone that offers commitment over a guy looking for a one-night stand any day, anytime. But, it might get difficult for you to provide your part of it because you are a traveler, and you will end up leaving that place one day or the other. On the off chance that you decide to stay in Siem Reap forever or take the girl with you, holiday romance might not be sustainable for you. The golden rule here is to find girls who are not too horny to have sex all the time, but not those who are too conservative or emotional to get stuck in the relationship. Pick girls who are up for a quick date, which is a blend of romance, sex, and fun, but no strings attached.


Tips for Successful Relationship

We have talked enough about dating and relationships already, but let's concentrate it all to help you build a fruitful relationship with Cambodian girls. Again, keep in mind that the way you approach the relationship depends upon what type of girl you're dating. That being said, here are a few general tips to keep in mind when dating in Siem Reap.

  • The most crucial step is, of course, to be in the zone. Several foreign men come to Siem Reap for casual sex and hookups, and the locals have a mindset that it is what most travelers need. For your relationship to succeed, you will need to demonstrate your interest in more towards a long, healthy, successful relationship than a mere call when need a quick fuck.
  • Punctuality is another essential aspect of a successful relationship. When you ask a girl out on a date, acknowledge the fact that it is you who has set up the date, and it is your responsibility to be there before the girl. Don't make the girl wait, especially if it is the first time you are going out together. It's better to arrive early and wait – it gives the impression that you are eager to spend time with her – which can be a big boost to your relationship.
  • Don't be hungry or desperate for sex. Your ultimate goal might be to get laid, don't let that lust and pervertedness come out on your face. Everybody, including the girl you are dating, knows that sex is an integral part of a relationship; however, a relationship consists of a lot more than just sex. So, let your balls cool down and explore other, more fulfilling aspects of being in a couple.
  • Most holiday relationships don't last long, and both you and the girl would realize it beforehand. But showing interest in being together for longer can be a significant thumbs-up for your relationship. You can do so by occasionally talking about the future – when will you meet again, how to keep in touch, etc. – you might never meet again, but it is crucial to demonstrate your interest in a long-term commitment.
  • Don't cut down sex. Yes, you don't need to be a pervert, you don't need to be an asexual or someone suffering from Genophobia. Sex is essential, and make sure it is present in adequate amounts.


Love

Since you're now sustaining relationships, let's take a step further and make things a bit more complicated. Yes, we are talking about love (hope you're not a philophobic). Some countries like the US, Mexico, Spain, and France are not meant to build relationships and fall in love. These places are intended to have as much fun as possible without leaving any links behind.

On the other hand, countries like Cambodia, Laos, Vietnam, and some South American countries are the places where you can take a break from the race of getting laid, and let your feelings take control. Siem Reap is the perfect place to find the love of your life, and it is surprisingly easy. In fact, finding love is way easier in these countries than finding casual sex, and for the rightful reasons discussed in the earlier sections of this content.

Love in Cambodia comes in as a by-product of a successful date. When you date a girl for long enough, so much so that you start feeling a connection, maybe you're in love. Falling in love does not reward every time; in many, actually most cases, it leads to heartbreak. So, be prepared for all kinds of outcomes. Just because you're looking for love, you might not find girls who will fall in love with you. Love is a rare feeling, and you might have a hard time finding someone you love, and she loves you back. Another hurdle with love is separation. Assuming that you are a traveler who will leave Siem Reap someday or the other, falling in love can be heartbreaking as you will eventually need to go.


How to Make Sure She Is the One

The next step towards the dating cycle is to figure out whether she is the one or not. This stuff is getting deep, isn't it? Once you date a girl for long enough to fall in love with her, you want to decide whether to take things ahead or not.

Several factors might come into play, such as who will migrate, convincing families, wedding location, etc. But the first thing that you need to determine is whether she is the perfect fit for you or not. Numerous factors can affect this decision, such as:

  • Whether you really love her or not: Make sure to ask yourself multiple times whether you are with the girl because you love her or because of something else.
  • Whether she loves you or not: The same goes for the opposite side; note her actions and reactions to determine whether she truly loves you or not.
  • Is it possible for her to move to your place? Or, is it possible for you to move to her city? When it comes to marriage or live-in relationship, one or the other partner would need to migrate. If none of the two can, you might need to reconsider your decision.
  • Family acceptance: Unless you have planned to live away from your parents for the rest of your life, it is essential to take input from your parents, too. Some parents might not approve of the relationship, and bringing a girl in such an unstable environment can be detrimental.
  • Religious conflicts: Some conservative Buddhist societies might not accept an inter-faith marriage. Make sure to keep this in mind, too.

Follow this checklist to determine whether you and the girl are a perfect fit for each other or not.


Marriage

Marriage in Siem Reap can be an interesting affair. It is a tourist city, and you will find a lot of destinations for the wedding. We will come to wedding destinations in the next section, but for now, let's discuss how you can proceed with marriage in Siem Reap. First and foremost, you will need to choose the customs with which the wedding will take place. Different religions have different marriage procedures, and if you and the girl belong to different faiths, hurdles might arise as to how to marriage ceremony will be performed.

The best you can do is to do it in both ways. For instance, if you are a Christian and your spouse in Buddhist, you can first perform a Christian-style marriage ceremony, and then a Buddhist-style wedding. This way, you get to be a part of both worlds, and none of the family will take offense as rituals of both religions will be fulfilled.


Wedding

Let's talk about the fun part now. Once you are ready to get married, it's time to choose a wedding destination. Luckily, Siem Reap is filled with such places. Some of the best spots for a destination wedding in Siem Reap are:

  • Anantara Angkor Resort
  • Heritage Suites Hotel
  • Memoire Palace Resort and Spa
  • Tara Angkor Hotel
  • Bunwin Residence
  • The Thirdfold Residence
  • Amansara

And you don't necessarily stick to Siem Reap because Cambodia has some other excellent wedding spots as well, such as Song Saa Private Island. Phnom Penh, the capital of the country, is located at a 5-hour drive from Siem Reap. If you don't want to organize a wedding in Siem Reap, you can pick the capital of the country as well.

Some of the best wedding spots in Phnom Penh are:

  • Diamond Island
  • The Premier Center Sen Sok
  • Building J, Kohpich
  • Vanra & Sopheap
  • Laor Vichit


Family Life

Lastly, let's come to family life in Cambodia. Cambodia is a safe country with minuscule crimes being reported. Thus, it would be an excellent place to spend your family life. You might find the need to migrate to a city like Phnom Penh because Siem Reap is a tourist destination. Finding jobs, schools, and other necessary amenities might become difficult. Also, the city is expensive than other cities in the country.

But all in all, Cambodia turns out to be an excellent place to spend the rest of your life. The summers are not too hot, and the winters are not too cold, making the place an excellent pick to live. Plus, you will get ample job and network opportunities as well.


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